If your vision is wanting to make a go places, you’re won’t achieve that by doing the little you can and hoping for the best. What must you do then? Do things that propel exponential personal growth. Here are a few suggestions;
BE DELIBERATE IN YOUR EFFORTS: What level of excellence or goal is eluding you? Why is this so? What do you do when you’re struggling? Where would you like to go on onto from what you are doing now? You need to be intentional, develop big goals based on a core set of skills you know you have that you can get you started on, make sure you find a mentor who will guide you, be your sounding board and help address any skills gaps quickly.
AVOID GRAVITY PEOPLE: These are people who specialise in negativity. You are excited about something, they burst your bubble. They may not do this on purpose. They see the glass half empty and are eternal pessimists. Sometimes, ‘gravity people’ can even be your boss, who will keep you in a box rather than encourage you to step out and take out a chance on your potential. If you have such a boss, you’ll need to consider moving to another department or another job.
BE YOUR BEST ADVOCATE: If you have the right people around you, there will no shortage of people who will wish you well. But you should be your own strongest champion because that is what will keep you going when people can’t always be available when you need them. Keep your mind and energy focused on what you can do rather than what you can’t. Avoid self-induced negative stress and side step any unnecessary ‘drama’ in that divides your attention and drains you.
BREAK UNHELPFUL PATTERNS: These take several forms; always distracted at work?, seeking counsel from the wrong source?, defending the indefensible, blaming others for your troubles?, not taking personal responsibility for mistakes?, abusing your position? Identify unhelpful patterns in yourself and find a way to break them. A good way is identify someone willing to be your ‘monitor’ to hold you accountable.
Now take action: What one thing will you do in the next 6 months to increase your personal growth
Saturday, July 21, 2012
Evolve into a collaborator
Becoming a collaborator helps you achieve more than you could do on your own. It also helps you support others and earn some good quality goodwill and loyalty that could come in handy. How do you become a collaborator?
PREPARE TO LEAD AND TO FOLLOW: Good collaborators can adapt well and become what the situation needs them to become, changing behaviours as necessary to keep moving forward To collaborate well, you must engage others early, focus on achieving a ‘win win’ result for everyone. You must also be comfortable with lining up behind others best placed to lead in any given circumstance.
BE AWARE OF OTHERS’S NEEDS: So that you can agree mutually beneficial goals. Emphasise what you have in common with others, how you can give your best and get the best from others. Understand yourself, where your ‘rough edges’ are so that you don’t rub people the wrong way. Appeal to others by showing that you can adapt to their needs and interests meet them half way.
FIND OUT WHAT MAY NOT BE OBVIOUS: To be a true collaborator, you must learn to read between the lines, connect the dots and find a way to work out what your counterpart may want that might not be immediately obvious. Don’t be afraid to ask questions in order to establish what’s important to them. Move with purpose but pay attention to your intuition tells you.
BE COMFORTABLE WITH GETTING SOMETHING TOO: Collaboration isn’t just about helping someone else achieve their goals, interests etc. You don’t have to give up your goals. Be prepared to get your ideas across in a decisive way provided you don’t expect others to give up their goals for yours. Develop high expectations of yourself and others. Be clear what support you need from others and ask for it.
SHOW YOU CAN BE TRUSTED: Collaboration is a partnership and so you must be earn the confidence of others, show that you are committed to their interests and willing to put your energies in. Make everyone involved feels they have a stake in what’s being pursued
Now take action: Where would your biggest strength be as a collaborator?
PREPARE TO LEAD AND TO FOLLOW: Good collaborators can adapt well and become what the situation needs them to become, changing behaviours as necessary to keep moving forward To collaborate well, you must engage others early, focus on achieving a ‘win win’ result for everyone. You must also be comfortable with lining up behind others best placed to lead in any given circumstance.
BE AWARE OF OTHERS’S NEEDS: So that you can agree mutually beneficial goals. Emphasise what you have in common with others, how you can give your best and get the best from others. Understand yourself, where your ‘rough edges’ are so that you don’t rub people the wrong way. Appeal to others by showing that you can adapt to their needs and interests meet them half way.
FIND OUT WHAT MAY NOT BE OBVIOUS: To be a true collaborator, you must learn to read between the lines, connect the dots and find a way to work out what your counterpart may want that might not be immediately obvious. Don’t be afraid to ask questions in order to establish what’s important to them. Move with purpose but pay attention to your intuition tells you.
BE COMFORTABLE WITH GETTING SOMETHING TOO: Collaboration isn’t just about helping someone else achieve their goals, interests etc. You don’t have to give up your goals. Be prepared to get your ideas across in a decisive way provided you don’t expect others to give up their goals for yours. Develop high expectations of yourself and others. Be clear what support you need from others and ask for it.
SHOW YOU CAN BE TRUSTED: Collaboration is a partnership and so you must be earn the confidence of others, show that you are committed to their interests and willing to put your energies in. Make everyone involved feels they have a stake in what’s being pursued
Now take action: Where would your biggest strength be as a collaborator?
Monday, July 9, 2012
Heed the red, amber , green lights
The traffic light symbol is increasingly been used outside of the field of road traffic, for example to assess status of projects. This symbol can also be a useful guide for managing your career as follows;
RED: This means red-flag; warning signs that could have negative consequences if ignored. Red-flags include putting your career advancement in someone else’s hands, not investing in yourself, fighting with your boss, confusing your job with your career, not updating your skills etc or even ‘thrashing’ your employer to others. Red can also mean ‘stop’. Some ‘stops’ to consider are making money the most important factor in career decisions, making choices for benefits you can get ‘now’; sticking with what’s familiar instead of creating new paths for yourself or always pursuing others’ definition of success.
AMBER: Amber is being in a constant state of preparation; the time to get ready and stay ready for the big breaks or even setting new goals for yourself. Amber time is when you do what you need to improve where you don’t measure up, learn what you need to learn to increase your success and identify where you need to persist. Amber time is also when to ask yourself some hard questions like; is where I am headed really where I wish to go? Is my current job taking me in a positive career direction? Am I deploying my strongest skills in what I am doing now? What are the calculated risks I need to take to open up more opportunities for myself?
GREEN: Green is cruising time; when you are in roles that you enjoy and draw on your strongest skills. But just as the traffic lights don’t stay green forever, you never know when you are going to hit a bump or a red sign. So use the green period to increase your momentum, grow important professional relationships and be recognised for what you can do. Also remember that whether you can cruise or not when the lights go green depends on the condition of your ‘career car’ which include a strong skills set, a positive mind-set and attitude, a good reputation and lot of good will from others.
Now take action: Do a traffic lights assessment of the status of your career now.
RED: This means red-flag; warning signs that could have negative consequences if ignored. Red-flags include putting your career advancement in someone else’s hands, not investing in yourself, fighting with your boss, confusing your job with your career, not updating your skills etc or even ‘thrashing’ your employer to others. Red can also mean ‘stop’. Some ‘stops’ to consider are making money the most important factor in career decisions, making choices for benefits you can get ‘now’; sticking with what’s familiar instead of creating new paths for yourself or always pursuing others’ definition of success.
AMBER: Amber is being in a constant state of preparation; the time to get ready and stay ready for the big breaks or even setting new goals for yourself. Amber time is when you do what you need to improve where you don’t measure up, learn what you need to learn to increase your success and identify where you need to persist. Amber time is also when to ask yourself some hard questions like; is where I am headed really where I wish to go? Is my current job taking me in a positive career direction? Am I deploying my strongest skills in what I am doing now? What are the calculated risks I need to take to open up more opportunities for myself?
GREEN: Green is cruising time; when you are in roles that you enjoy and draw on your strongest skills. But just as the traffic lights don’t stay green forever, you never know when you are going to hit a bump or a red sign. So use the green period to increase your momentum, grow important professional relationships and be recognised for what you can do. Also remember that whether you can cruise or not when the lights go green depends on the condition of your ‘career car’ which include a strong skills set, a positive mind-set and attitude, a good reputation and lot of good will from others.
Now take action: Do a traffic lights assessment of the status of your career now.
Sunday, June 10, 2012
Don't be a L.O.U.S.Y manager
Being a manager especially of people is a difficult job that requires a lot of learning day to day. That said to be effective, every manager must get some basic tasks right and that demands that you avoid the following;
LEAVING YOUR TEAM TO THEIR OWN DEVICES: As manager, you must provide direction to your team and guide them daily in a way that is helpful to each individual. Sometimes, managers can shirk this responsibility for fear of coming across as micro-managing. A good approach is to understand the needs of individuals and coach accordingly as one person may need close guidance whilst another may not.
OVERLY CONCERNED WITH YOUR OWN WORK: Sometimes in addition to coaching your team to be highly productive, you most likely have other assignments unrelated to this role. But don’t get so engrossed in this other work that you ignore supporting your team. By being an attentive manager you can understand how your team is doing, what help they need and how best to provide it.
UNDERMINING EFFORTS OF THE TEAM: Make sure that as manager there is fundamental trust and respect between you and your team and you demonstrate integrity in all your actions. Don’t operate by rumours, hearsay or favoritism. Work with your team to create an environment where everyone feels they can do their best. Don’t take credit for their ideas and accomplishments.
SCARING THEM BY BARKING ORDERS: Some managers see this as a way to show their authority and ostensibly to get things done. But we all know that hardly achieves anything except to make others feel unappreciated and disrespected. If the team fails, you fail so it’s in your interest to work WITH them rather treat them as people who work FOR you.
YEARNING FOR PERSONAL RECOGNITION: To the extent that you for example pay more attention to doing the things that you feel will benefit you personally like pleasing your own boss at the expense of your team. Your team wants to know how they are doing, so give them feedback that they need to keep delivering results, to improve and to get the recognition they deserve from decision makers.
Now take action: Identify one way you can be a better manager to your team.
LEAVING YOUR TEAM TO THEIR OWN DEVICES: As manager, you must provide direction to your team and guide them daily in a way that is helpful to each individual. Sometimes, managers can shirk this responsibility for fear of coming across as micro-managing. A good approach is to understand the needs of individuals and coach accordingly as one person may need close guidance whilst another may not.
OVERLY CONCERNED WITH YOUR OWN WORK: Sometimes in addition to coaching your team to be highly productive, you most likely have other assignments unrelated to this role. But don’t get so engrossed in this other work that you ignore supporting your team. By being an attentive manager you can understand how your team is doing, what help they need and how best to provide it.
UNDERMINING EFFORTS OF THE TEAM: Make sure that as manager there is fundamental trust and respect between you and your team and you demonstrate integrity in all your actions. Don’t operate by rumours, hearsay or favoritism. Work with your team to create an environment where everyone feels they can do their best. Don’t take credit for their ideas and accomplishments.
SCARING THEM BY BARKING ORDERS: Some managers see this as a way to show their authority and ostensibly to get things done. But we all know that hardly achieves anything except to make others feel unappreciated and disrespected. If the team fails, you fail so it’s in your interest to work WITH them rather treat them as people who work FOR you.
YEARNING FOR PERSONAL RECOGNITION: To the extent that you for example pay more attention to doing the things that you feel will benefit you personally like pleasing your own boss at the expense of your team. Your team wants to know how they are doing, so give them feedback that they need to keep delivering results, to improve and to get the recognition they deserve from decision makers.
Now take action: Identify one way you can be a better manager to your team.
Sunday, June 3, 2012
Stop the career cobwebs
Cobwebs are a sign of staleness and usually found in ceilings but trust me cobwebs can grow in your career too if you ‘stay put’; content to do what you’ve always done day in day out. Here are some tips for preventing cobwebs from stalling your career.
AVOID THE DAY TO DAY APPROACH: When you think about your work-life only day to day, you lose sight of what you need to do today to better your future or indeed what the long term impact of your day to day decisions are likely to be. For example, if you are a supervisor wanting to become manager, you need to understand what is required of a manager and start demonstrating potential at that level; even find a mentor to guide you so that when an opening comes you’re ready to apply. Be smart day to day but strategic in planning your advancement long term.
DON’T SIT ON YOUR LAURELS: If your proudest achievements happened more than two years ago, you’re courting cobwebs. Be proud of your successes but don’t stay stuck reminiscing over them. Research shows that employers look at a CV for an average of 10 seconds so you’ve got to make sure you have fresh accomplishments to include annually. Never settle, demand more of yourself and move to your next level so that you can present yourself always in a positive light.
DEVELOP A SPIRIT OF EXCELLENCE: Learn to do a couple of things very well so that you can always reflect excellence in some aspect of what you do. Continually learn and acquire new knowledge so that you demonstrate you are abreast of trends or developments in your field. Be known as a person who’s principled, does their best and learns from their mistakes.
TREAT EVERYONE WITH RESPECT: As they say’ what goes round comes around.’ The power of what others have to say about you can sometimes make or break you. If you don’t like someone for whatever reason don’t let it show and don’t say bad things about them behind their back- it could come back to bite you. Be gracious and generous with your comments about other people.
Now take action: Where in your career do you need some new successes?
AVOID THE DAY TO DAY APPROACH: When you think about your work-life only day to day, you lose sight of what you need to do today to better your future or indeed what the long term impact of your day to day decisions are likely to be. For example, if you are a supervisor wanting to become manager, you need to understand what is required of a manager and start demonstrating potential at that level; even find a mentor to guide you so that when an opening comes you’re ready to apply. Be smart day to day but strategic in planning your advancement long term.
DON’T SIT ON YOUR LAURELS: If your proudest achievements happened more than two years ago, you’re courting cobwebs. Be proud of your successes but don’t stay stuck reminiscing over them. Research shows that employers look at a CV for an average of 10 seconds so you’ve got to make sure you have fresh accomplishments to include annually. Never settle, demand more of yourself and move to your next level so that you can present yourself always in a positive light.
DEVELOP A SPIRIT OF EXCELLENCE: Learn to do a couple of things very well so that you can always reflect excellence in some aspect of what you do. Continually learn and acquire new knowledge so that you demonstrate you are abreast of trends or developments in your field. Be known as a person who’s principled, does their best and learns from their mistakes.
TREAT EVERYONE WITH RESPECT: As they say’ what goes round comes around.’ The power of what others have to say about you can sometimes make or break you. If you don’t like someone for whatever reason don’t let it show and don’t say bad things about them behind their back- it could come back to bite you. Be gracious and generous with your comments about other people.
Now take action: Where in your career do you need some new successes?
Sunday, May 27, 2012
Speak up responsibly
Whether you speak up in your organisation depends in most cases on whether you feel able to do so. However, the advantages of doing so outweigh the disadvantages so it’s worth taking a chance. How is some advice on how to go about it.
BE A BALANCED VOICE: Balance your voice by thinking about and through what exactly you want to say, why you want to say it and what purpose you want it to serve. Say what you want in a way that shows you have reflected on the issues. If others have expressed opinions about the same issue, make sure you are presenting a fresh angle on things.
SHOW LEADERSHIP: Know when to speak; think about how and where is best to speak up. An open forum may not always the place to speak especially if what you have to say can put someone on the spot. Don’t address in an public forum an issue that should be dealt with one on one. Speaking up is not easy for many people; therefore when you do you are setting an example, so make sure it’s a good one.
DON’T BE AN ECHO: There’s nothing wrong with endorsing the view of another. Infact it is a good way of promoting consensus. However, being an echo is being loud, saying nothing new or insisting on just your opinions rather than hearing what others have to say or their response to your contributions. Whatever you want to say even if it’s a question, make sure it really adds value to the goals of the conversation.
SET A TONE FOR YOURSELF: Be calm and consistent, aim not to respond in the heat of the moment. When you feel agitated, give yourself time to cool down. Hold yourself responsible for getting a good result (as far as is within your control) for what you want to contribute. It’s your job not only to say what you have to say respectfully to improve the chances that you’ll be heard.
Now take action: What do you need to do to gather the courage to speak up more?
BE A BALANCED VOICE: Balance your voice by thinking about and through what exactly you want to say, why you want to say it and what purpose you want it to serve. Say what you want in a way that shows you have reflected on the issues. If others have expressed opinions about the same issue, make sure you are presenting a fresh angle on things.
SHOW LEADERSHIP: Know when to speak; think about how and where is best to speak up. An open forum may not always the place to speak especially if what you have to say can put someone on the spot. Don’t address in an public forum an issue that should be dealt with one on one. Speaking up is not easy for many people; therefore when you do you are setting an example, so make sure it’s a good one.
DON’T BE AN ECHO: There’s nothing wrong with endorsing the view of another. Infact it is a good way of promoting consensus. However, being an echo is being loud, saying nothing new or insisting on just your opinions rather than hearing what others have to say or their response to your contributions. Whatever you want to say even if it’s a question, make sure it really adds value to the goals of the conversation.
SET A TONE FOR YOURSELF: Be calm and consistent, aim not to respond in the heat of the moment. When you feel agitated, give yourself time to cool down. Hold yourself responsible for getting a good result (as far as is within your control) for what you want to contribute. It’s your job not only to say what you have to say respectfully to improve the chances that you’ll be heard.
Now take action: What do you need to do to gather the courage to speak up more?
Sunday, May 20, 2012
Don't play career lottery
There are a lot of things to that you can do to put your career on the right track such as developing new skills, working for good organizations or having a mentor. But there are many things than can insidiously eat away at your career prospects. Here are a few of those to avoid.
DON’T BURN YOUR BRIDGES: People burn bridges when they get too emotionally consumed about an issue or especially if they feel they have been wronged. The most challenging of these is remaining sane when in your boss’ eyes you can do no right. If that happens and you know for sure there’s little you can do to rescue the situation, look to go work elsewhere but depart in a decent way, no tantrums, no name calling.
DON’T WORK ‘UNCONSCIOUSLY’: Showing up at your job day to day and going through the motions isn’t exactly a career building exercise. At a minimum, appreciate what you need to do to make the job satisfying or fulfilling. You may be mostly interested in the pay cheque but that kind of attitude to work is unlikely to guarantee you a job for long or to offer you any real chance of advancement.
DON’T REJECT OPPORTUNITY: Sounds crazy? But we do that all the time without realizing it. For example, do you sometimes find yourself saying or even thinking ‘it’s not my job’ or ‘I am not paid to do this’ when you are asked to extra work? Of course it may be within your rights to decline but will it be in the interest of your career development? You can take on more work than you think but don’t overwhelm yourself. Think twice before you reject opportunities that are ‘clothed’ as extra work.
DON’T KEEP RECYCLING YOURSELF: If your organization were looking for a bunch of forward thinking, hardworking, problem solving, good team players to work on an assignment the rewards of which may could include promotion, bonuses or an enhanced reputation, would you be selected?. My point is are you ever ready to take on new challenges or are you satisfied doing the ‘same old, same old’?
Now take action: In what ways are you gambling with the future of your career?
DON’T BURN YOUR BRIDGES: People burn bridges when they get too emotionally consumed about an issue or especially if they feel they have been wronged. The most challenging of these is remaining sane when in your boss’ eyes you can do no right. If that happens and you know for sure there’s little you can do to rescue the situation, look to go work elsewhere but depart in a decent way, no tantrums, no name calling.
DON’T WORK ‘UNCONSCIOUSLY’: Showing up at your job day to day and going through the motions isn’t exactly a career building exercise. At a minimum, appreciate what you need to do to make the job satisfying or fulfilling. You may be mostly interested in the pay cheque but that kind of attitude to work is unlikely to guarantee you a job for long or to offer you any real chance of advancement.
DON’T REJECT OPPORTUNITY: Sounds crazy? But we do that all the time without realizing it. For example, do you sometimes find yourself saying or even thinking ‘it’s not my job’ or ‘I am not paid to do this’ when you are asked to extra work? Of course it may be within your rights to decline but will it be in the interest of your career development? You can take on more work than you think but don’t overwhelm yourself. Think twice before you reject opportunities that are ‘clothed’ as extra work.
DON’T KEEP RECYCLING YOURSELF: If your organization were looking for a bunch of forward thinking, hardworking, problem solving, good team players to work on an assignment the rewards of which may could include promotion, bonuses or an enhanced reputation, would you be selected?. My point is are you ever ready to take on new challenges or are you satisfied doing the ‘same old, same old’?
Now take action: In what ways are you gambling with the future of your career?
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